When it comes to creating the life you dream of, do you tend to focus on mindset, or action? Do you prefer to manifest by being your future self, or by doing the things your future self needs you to do? In this episode Danette uses dance as a metaphor for what’s really going on when everything is flowing towards what we want most.
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Unbound: A Woman’s Guide to Power by KasiaUrbaniak
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So, you know this relationship isn’t what you want. You haven’t been happy in it for a long time. And if you’re honest, you know you really aren’t all that motivated to try and save it – even if you did believe saving it would work. So why are you still there? Are you waiting for a “good enough” reason?
If so, this episode is your permission slip.
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In this 100th episode of The Soft Shoulder Podcast, Danette celebrates the importance of making self love YOURS. It is an art, after all – and sometimes that looks like strutting around your neighbourhood to the very sexy Alannah Myles.
Have you been sidetracked without realizing it? Got a little caught up in your fallback plan and forgot what the dream was in the first place? We all do it. This is your loving wakeup call to take a look around, remember why you are here, and re-focus on where your heart really wants to go.
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Does the word “abundance” kinda make your eyes glaze over? You know it’s supposed to be inspiring, but it just falls flat somehow? In this episode Danette shares the affirmation that is rocking her world right now. Consider it a spell to break you free from scarcity thinking – or at the very least, help you declutter your Tupperware.
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Sometimes you know the end is near for a while before it actually comes into being. This episode is for those who may be newly breaking up or almost breaking up – along with a personal story of how self love does not stop your heart from breaking. It just makes it less scary.
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How would you define “Self Love”? What about “Authenticity”? How might your definitions reveal opportunities for you to love and accept yourself even more? This episode is a gentle reminder to notice your binary thinking about self love, and allow it to exist in you, as you are, always.
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If you’re going through it, you are not alone. This episode is a friendly wave of solidarity from the wild times of grief and loss, reminding you that you are not alone, it’s okay to hate this, and maybe deep diving into your favourite absurd entertainment is the medicine you didn’t know you needed.
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Some say it’s not realistic to expect any one person to fulfill all your needs in a marriage. We have much higher expectations these days – seeking life partners who are also running buddies, best friends, business collaborators, co-parents, and erotic playmates with compatable rising signs. Good news: when you are marrying yourself, you can have all this and more – if you want to.
In this episode Danette explores three ways you can connect with yourself and three contexts to do it in. Which combination would make self marriage the most meaningful for you?
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This mini episode is an invitation to play pretend and allow your imagination to change the game.
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